Nate's Mission Blog

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2009-03-14T11:24:00.001-07:00

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3-2-09

2009-03-07T14:15:00.000-08:00

Dear Family and Friends,

This week was a good one. I was on exchanges on the other end of the zone for a couple of days and then the rest of the week I was back in Mt. Vernon. One of the guys I’ve been working with for a while now had made more of a commitment to trying the church out a couple weeks and since then he’s been doing great. His name is Ralph and in the last two weeks, he’s seen his life get better as he’s been taking lessons and coming to church. He was always willing to listen, but not very interested, and in the last two weeks, he’s become solid. He’s a lot happier and random things for him have lined up lately so he realized he’s doing a good thing. It’s been neat watching him see the blessings and his countenance change. But the best part was the last two days when he was baptized and confirmed. He even heard about Fast Sunday and fasted yesterday. He’s awesome. The blessings from living the Gospel have been so apparent in him. He’s happier and much more driven than when I first met him. Yesterday was the last day he could stay at his old place and yesterday a recent convert in the other Mt. Vernon ward took him in. It’s great.

The sister missionaries in the zone are on fire and baptized three people the other day and a few hours earlier, a husband and wife were baptized in the same font. That day we had six people baptized in three baptisms throughout the zone and luckily I got to be at all of them.

At church yesterday, after Ralph was confirmed at Sacrament Meeting, I saw Jesse and Mallory both in the congregation, as usual, but it hit me what an individual difference I had helped make for them. It was awesome. Jesse’s great. He’s at church every week, and Mallory’s dad has become active. We went to Ralph’s place tonight and he’s so solid. He wanted to make sure he fasted right. He’s happier than I’ve ever seen him, and he said he wanted to serve a mission. If he did, we could be out at the same time. He’s the man.

Missionary work has blossomed my testimony. I’ve seen the powers of Satan every day working on those we’re teaching and on me, but the things I’ve seen the Lord do have been incomparable. Nothing that I’ll ever do will be as meaningful and impacting as missionary work. It’s the best. The more I lose myself in service, the more I grow and learn. The message of the Restored Gospel is so important. If we aren’t sharing it, we’re doing those around us a disservice that the Lord has placed in our path. (D&C 88:81: Behold, I sent you out to testify and warn the people, and it becometh every man who hath been warned to warn his neighbor.)

MISSIONS ARE THE COOLEST THINGS EVER!

Thanks again for everything. I LOVE YOU ALL!

Elder Packer

2-17-09--abridged tape

2009-02-26T20:58:00.000-08:00

Hey Mom and Dad and Everybody,

Our work is going good, really good.Wwe have seven people on date in four days. Not too shabby! And I think half of them will be baptized this transfer. We’re going to have to get them to church without fail for the rest of the transfer and they’re going to have to be baptized on March 7^th, the last Saturday, which would be awesome because I want to baptize somebody on my birthday. I want to baptize 22 people on my birthday, but one will do. And then a couple of them want to make sure we do it because there’s a pretty good chance that Elder Dunn and I will be leaving the area. So I’ll be leaving, probably, because this will be six months that I’ve been in the same area, minus three weeks in Marysville. That got a couple of them to want to be baptized cause I told them “I’m going to be leaving on the 10^th, ya gotta get baptized.” And they’re like, “All right, I’ll get baptized.” It was great.

It’s tough in Mt. Vernon because the majority of people we work with are transient and low income, which isn’t rare for the mission, because the more humble people are more receptive. We try tracting the regular areas, not like the upper-class areas because those are pretty hard, but we try tracking the medium areas, about half-way up the hill and usually aren’t able to get a whole lot there. It’s kind of sad that even the middle-class people aren’t willing to listen. There’s a lot of churches around here too, and I’d say about 75-80% of them are anti. So if they belong to another church, chances are they’re already heard the speel in a different way. So it’s kind of tough, but we’re getting better at it. We’re getting more effective than I’ve ever been. We’re able to have longer conversations at doors.

We have this thing called “standards” in the mission which is the Seven Standards of Excellence and it’s certain things you’re supposed to achieve every week and every transfer and it to make sure the mission is going well and it’s a way to rate ourselves if we’re making standards. Fun Five, talk to 10, that’s number one. Talk to 10 is for two companions, but since we have 3 companions, it’s talk to 15 for us. The second is seven hours of tracting at least every week. The third one is teach 20 lessons a week with at least seven having members present, and for it to be considered a lesson, it has to have a prayer at the end and it has to cover at least two principles and last at least 10-15 minutes, so you can do them on doorsteps, but it’s tough. But it happens a lot. We get three lessons a day, usually with a member present, or at the end of the week we’ll take Priests (16-18 year-old boys) out and we’ll just go tract or to teaching appointments and get like for member appointments in a day. Seven is one baptism per missionary per transfer. Number six is two new people on date every week. Number five is one investigator to Sacrament Meeting who’s progressing, meaning they’re keeping their commitments. They need to have one per missionary at Sacrament Meeting every week. And then number four is find five new investigators every week. A new investigator is someone who has been taught a first lesson and they have a return appointment. So if you do those things then you hit standards, and we want everybody in our whole zone to hit standards every week because we have one of the best zones and all the areas are great and so we kind of push towards that. We made standards the last two weeks.

Elder Larsen is legit! He is one of the best missionaries out here. He’s really humble too, which is the great part. He’s a good zone leader. One of the things we did—cause we have one of the best zones in the mission and we should be the highest performing zone this transfer. And so we made this thing called…it’s kind of like Moroni’s Title of Liberty. We have a Title of Faith in the mission that says we’re going to baptize 1000 people and we had a whole zone conference about it and we talked about how we could do it and set out sights higher and everybody in the whole zone signed this big sheet that had 1000 baptisms on it, and that was like our mission Title of Faith. And we did a zone Title of Success. We had things like working hard, being obedient, having faith, making a specific sacrifice this transfer to reach your baptismal goal on top of being obedient. And we had everybody in the whole zone sign it and we gave each companionship one to put in their apartment so when they wake up they can be like “yah, alright.” So that was cool.

Elder Dunn is a good missionary and is really motivated to work hard and be obedient and have success. He’s really positive. He’s from some city next to Poway in San Diego. But he’s a good missionary.

The ward’s good. We had a Young Woman’s fundraiser the other day to help all these girls be able to go to camp and they auctioned off all these desserts everybody had made and they were going for $20 and $30 and they were making a lot of money. It was great.

We invited two investigators but neither of them showed up, but we stayed for a while and we were sitting in the back and every family that was there had these little silent auction things with their names on it on like a popsicle stick, so they could hold it up during the auction, and we didn’t have one, so I grabbed this big heart off the table (it was on the Friday before Valentine’s Day) and I wrote “The Elders” on the heart and I took a fork and poked it through the bottom of it. A lady gave us $20 a while ago and we’d spent $12, so we had $8 and I said, “Elder, we’ve got $8 and we’re going to start auctioning, but we’re not going to start at $2.” So at $8 we’d put our heart up and then somebody would go to $15 right after that, so we never actually won anything. And then after that we started holding our car keys up and they all cracked up. It was pretty funny. And then because of our efforts, people would start bidding, and they wouldn’t really want them, but then they would just bring them over to us. There was this platter of chocolate covered strawberries and somebody won and brought it over—it was awesome. Then we got a cake and a pie and another cake. So we had four platters of dessert out in front of us and there was Elder Dunn, Elder Larsen, me, Elder King and Elder Simmons from the Mt. Vernon 2^nd Ward. We’re all there just chomping down. It was great!

There’s a girl who’s 14 in the ward who comes to church every week. She goes to girls’ camp. She in Young Women in Excellence, she bears her testimony, she gives talks. She’s not a member though because her mom won’t let her get baptized until she’s 18. The mom has a big-time chip on her shoulder because she got a divorce from her husband who was a member and so it’s her against him, and if her daughter gets baptized then he wins. So she’s being very childish about it. Missionaries have tried getting her there in the past, but the mom flips out the harder the missionaries try, so we’re just talking to the daughter and talking to the fellowshippers and playing it cool and fasting and praying for her and hoping that her mom softens up cause we heard news that she was softening up a couple of weeks ago. We’re hoping that as we do these things, we can help speed up that process and get her baptized before we leave. If her mom said “OK,” she could get baptized the next day and there would be no questions asked, so we’re going to work hard towards that.

I went on exchanges with Elder Kinzer, one of the guys in my room from the MTC -- it was great. Last week he put nobody on date, he taught seven lessons, he found three new investigators, pretty low numbers, so he definitely didn’t get close to making standards, and then the day I went out with him, we were still on a bike and we were walking around tracting and we taught five lessons with two recent convert less-active lessons, so seven lessons total. We found three new investigators and we put one guy on date, so it was a great day and he was amazed at the potential of his area. I’m like, “you can do this every single day. You can hit standards, no problem, and if you can get five lessons in a week that’s great” That’s better than our area. We rarely get over four. So that was cool to go out there and help him out. He’s still kind of struggling. And then there’s another young companionship in Anacortes that we’re going to go on exchanges with. We’ve gotta help our zone.

I forgot to mention that I had a really cool experience the other day. I was tracting with a Priest and we were knocking on all these doors. We had been knocking on doors for 40 minutes and nobody had really been interested. We’d given pamphlets out, we’d stretched out conversations for like five minutes, trying to give them lessons. We were kind of giving up realizing they just wanted to close the door, and we hadn’t had much luck at home, and a lot of people weren’t home, so we knocked on a couple more doors and then nobody answered and I was trying to focus on being positive at the door. I was having to work for it. So we walked away from a door and I said, “Alright. One of these next houses is going to be money. It’s going to be great.” And we got all excited about it. “Yah, it’s going to be sweet.” And then right after that, this garage door opens up at the house across the street and this dude is standing there and we walk over to him and we said “Hey, we’re missionaries from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and we want to share a message about Christ with you.” And he’s like, “Yah, sounds great. I’d be happy to have you guys over later.” And so we got his contact information and we’re going to see him this week. He seems really cool and really solid. So it was awesome. It was awesome!

I went to the San Juans last week to help out a senior couple who didn’t have a lot going on, and we put a couple of people on date and saw some people and taught some lessons. But it was snowing out there. I went out there and thought it was going to be like sugar cane and gumdrops and children dancing, and it was snowing, and we were in a trailer park. And it was still good though. We were kind of ill-prepared for the snow. We walked around getting snowed on. It wasn’t the first time it happened and it won’t be the last.

Thanks for the letters. Thanks for the support. I love you all. Thank you all for the support. Thank you for encouraging me to go on a mission. This has been the best thing I’ve ever done in my life. I’ve learned more than I ever have before. Even if it were to end today. If this mission were to get shut down and I went home, I would be a different person. This has been great. I’ve grown a lot and I’ve grown to appreciate the Gospel and my upbringing more because of it.

But thanks for everything. I appreciate everything. Camille: good luck with those babies. I know you’re getting pretty close. And Sam: good luck with those babies, and Connie: good luck with those babies, and Jeff: good luck with those babies. Everybody else: good luck with your current endeavors. Good luck with Lakeshore Dad. Sounds like you’re working hard on that. I hope it works out. Hope all your hard work pays off. It will.

Thanks everybody and GO GET ‘EM!

Love, Elder Packer

1-30-09

2009-02-03T16:26:00.000-08:00

Dear Family and Friends,

The mission is going well. It seems to get better every week. We had transfers last week and it couldn’t have gone any better. A lot was going to happen there: a new Assistant to the President was gonna go up. I would get a new missionary to train, and I would also get another companion. I would also have a lot of changes to the zone so there was a lot in the air. My companion, Elder Zirker, turned out to be the new Assistant which wasn’t too surprising. My new missionary I’m training is Elder Dunn from Rancho Bernardo/Poway, CA. He’s a good one, and I got hooked up again with Elder Larsen as my co-ZL/trainer. He’s from Brenster, Nebraska and is a full-on cowboy. He’s been out for 14 months and almost went as the new Assistant, so he’s a really solid missionary. So now there’s three of us. It’s great.

We had a really good meeting with the President and were excited to get our zone to be the highest performing in the mission. That’s our rough goal. We have one of the best zones so it’s doable. We’re working on giving the vision to everybody and getting them motivated. I’m pretty sure it will be the best transfer so far. Elder Larsen is one of the best missionaries I’ve ever seen and like Elder Zirker, he’s taught me a lot already. Training helps too. I’ve learned a lot from Elder Dunn.

Things are good. The days are getting longer. No more sundowns at 4:15, so that’s good. I’m busier than ever and more driven than ever, so I haven’t got a whole lot of time to write this. The power of the Atonement is real and powerful. Tony and Jesse who were baptized last Saturday have been described as “totally different people” by their friends, and I have seen big changes in them even hours after the baptism. It’s amazing.

My favorite, besides of course baptizing people, is throwing out the commitment to them. It’s interesting. Even if they don’t accept it, they appreciate the offer. One guy I had to work with for about 10 minutes just to get the pamphlet in his hand and he didn’t accept the challenge, but before we left, he said “thank you” to us. You never know whether or not they will do it. They feel something and appreciate it most of the time. I’m trying to throw the commitment out to at least one person everyday for the rest of my mission. It feels great.

Thanks for the letters. It sounds like the babies are doing well in Utah.

Hopefully you’re not working too hard Dad.

Hopefully you’ve ridden since I left, cough, cough, Jeff. It’s safe to say leaving a dirtbike in a garage for months without riding it is an unpardonable sin. There’s a riding area across the valley from where I live so I see guys hauling bikes out there all the time and, surprisingly, I don’t miss it as much as I thought I would. I’m sure the calling has something to do with that.

By the way, that letter was great, Derek.

You’re almost a full-on mom, Camille. Jeff, you’re gonna be a dad. That’s nuts. Awesome!

Thanks for the care packages everyone.

I didn’t get any flooding in my neck of the woods. Snohomish got it bad, but Mt. Vernon and Marysville were safe.

Thanks again for the letters and everything else.

Love,

Elder Nathan Packer

WA Everett Mission

16124-35^th Ave. SE

PO Box 13390

Mill Creek, WA 98082-1390

1-22-09

2009-01-27T07:03:00.000-08:00

Dear Family and Friends,

Sorry for not getting a letter out last week. The last two weeks have been busy. Zirker and I have probably driven 1200 miles around the zone and down to Everett and Mill Creek for meetings since we got transferred. I didn’t realize so much driving was involved in this position. I’ve been able to get to know the Zone better and all the missionaries so I’ve enjoyed it for the most part. I didn’t realize how good of an area Mt. Vernon was until I left it. With about half as much time in our area to work as before we’re able to get as much done as just about anybody in our zone. It’s great. Elder Zirker lives to tract which is good because aside from our on-daters, we are in a big-time finding mode. He likes to work so things are going well. He’s been out for 18 months so I’m learning a lot from him, and he’s hilarious so we have a good time.

We’ve got two baptisms coming up this Saturday with some good guys—Tony and Jessie. They’ve turned their lives around from being in the homeless lifestyle and it’s exciting seeing them taking the right steps.

I’m still meeting with Brian but it’s been hard getting him out to church, so he isn’t progressing a whole lot. Last week I gave his son, Jonah, some lemon juice because I heard if you dipped cigarettes in it and smoked them, it’s nasty. So Jonah was all over it. We made a secret handoff and a couple hours later I got a call from Brian all upset saying he wants to invite us over to dinner so he can feed us a bunch of food full of laxatives that we can wash down with lemonade. At first I thought he was really mad and that I’d screwed up, but he was joking. I guess it worked, he said it was really bad and he couldn’t figure out what it was, but then Jonah started laughing at him and threw us under the bus. Good times.

So since Zirker and I have both put on some mission weight, we’ve gone healthy. So we got a bunch of produce from the market and made this shake to kick the whole thing off. We put some spinach, lettuce and a carrot in the blender and made up the swampiest concoction. It looked like chunky swamp water full of algae, but we put it down and we’re never gonna do it again. My stomach was moaning all day and it wasn’t pleasant. I’d like to think it added a few years to my lifespan, but even then it wasn’t worth it. We make fruit shakes now with a lot of blackberries—it’s great.

Deception Pass is in the zone so I drive over it a couple times a week and I’ve got some photos I’ll send soon.

Thanks for the letters—everybody who’s written me—thank you. I’m not the best at remembering to get back, but I’ll try.

All’s well. I’m being blessed.

Love,

Elder Packer

1-9-09

2009-01-15T17:33:00.000-08:00

Hey Everybody,

This week takes the cake for crazy ones. After P-day on Thursday night at 11 while I’m sleeping, I get a call from Elder Martineau and the first thing he says is, “This is not a joke.” Then he tells me I’m getting sent to Mt. Vernon 1^st Ward with another missionary to replace the ones up there. So as of Friday afternoon, I’m back in Mt. Vernon—same ward, same apartment, 3 weeks later. I’m stoked. I didn’t sleep much Thursday night because I was thinking about all the people I was teaching I’d see again. Elder Merrell and I had gotten a lot going, but it’s awesome being back. I got released as a District Leader and now my new comp, Elder Zirker, is training me as a Zone Leader. It’s fun. It’s just like having a bigger district than before. We do a lot for the zone so we don’t get as much time with our area, but the time we get is effective.

I’ve seen Brian and Mike and with the 3-week transition, they’ve both lost steam, so I’m gonna see what we can to do getting them progressing.

Zirker’s the man! I’m learning more than ever with him. And with less time in our area than before, I think we’ll get more accomplished than before. The elders that were here and then left transformed the apartment. It’s spotless and it’s got a bench press and weight set. It’s great. They cut down the 5-foot-tall blackberry bushes in the backyard too so now we can see Big Lake. They had 3 feet of snow so they just cleaned up everything since they were stuck.

Things are good. Zirker is from Dubuque, Iowa. He’s hilarious and loves tracting. We haven’t had the chance to do any yet, but when we do, we’re gonna tear it up.

Thanks for the letters. All’s well.

Love,

Elder Packer

WA Everett Mission

16124-35^th Ave. SE

PO Box 13390

Mill Creek, WA 98082-1390

1-2-09

2009-01-08T15:14:00.000-08:00

Dear Family and Friends,

It dawned on me a few days ago that I’ll be a missionary for all of 2009. I thought that was pretty cool. Things are going well in Marysville. We’ve built up some good momentum here and have many people to see now which is nice.

The snow’s finally gone so we can drive the van around—that’s been huge. When it first started snowing I thought it was awesome. It looked really nice and white outside, but I got over it fast, since we couldn’t drive for about a week. Church was even cancelled for two weeks. So the snow’s gone for now and we’re all doing a pretty good job at making up for lost time.

We had a zone P-day yesterday with about 20 missionaries. We played the most intense basketball of my life. I had heard the legends of how crazy missionaries got at basketball and yesterday I lived it. You would think there were NBA scouts watching the way it was going. It was a lot of fun. We only had three minor injuries, so it was relatively clean.

I wish I had some good stories about my investigators, but so far they’ve all been pretty normal. This transfer, so far, has been really good. We’ve had two struggling companionships in the district and they’ve both been able to get things going so that we’re all pulling hard. I like my new leadership calling a lot. I like the whole team mentality of it, the pressure and responsibility are definitely there, but the opportunity definitely outweighs them. It’s fun.

This is what’s called “money week.” Since somebody has to come to church three times before they can be baptized, this is the last week we can still find, baptize, and confirm in the transfer, and today (Friday) is the most important day of the week since it has the biggest influence of how the Sunday turnout goes. So today’s gonna be a busy one.

Last Sunday we did pretty bad at getting people out to church mainly because of the snow, so this week needs to be a big one. I’m learning a lot this transfer so far.

Thanks for all of the letters. To answer your question Camille, no Mallory unfortunately isn’t active since her dad isn’t, and things like that make me want to be back in Mt. Vernon to help fix. It’s hard leaving all the people you’ve taught and recent converts for two new missionaries. They are good missionaries though and I trust that President Showalter put them there for a reason.

Thanks, again, everybody.

Love, Nate

2008-12-24T10:27:00.000-08:00

Hey everybody,

It’s been a crazy week. It started snowing on Saturday and went all day and night. In the morning there was 5 inches and church was cancelled. We weren’t allowed to drive either, and since we live out in the boonies and the only way to get around would be walking along an ice highway, we played it safe at home. It snowed more Sunday, and Tuesday and dumped yesterday and we’ve got about 9 inches and it hasn’t stopped since Tuesday. Wasn’t expecting this.

That is only the beginning of the craziness. Martineau and I expected to both stay in Mount Vernon for this transfer. So we were waiting for calls on Saturday from our Zone Leaders to let us know. Thursday night, last Thursday, our Zone Leaders call and ask me what I think is gonna happen. It wasn’t Saturday so I didn’t know what he was talking about. It was leadership calls on Thursday, and since both Martineau and I didn’t expect getting a call it was surprising. He said we were both getting a leadership position and we’ll find out the next day at the meeting. We’re shocked and figure we’ll be trainers since we’re relatively new and that’s the lowest notch on the ladder. This is why the week was crazy. Martineau goes Zone Leader and I go District Leader. I haven’t even been senior companion yet. It was awesome. So the way it worked out was Martineau is one of my Zone Leaders and I’m one of his District Leaders. It’s crazy.

So, I’m in Marysville now. I can finally drive and I’ve got a Dodge Caravan. It’s ballin! I’m in a nice apartment and my comps been out 6 weeks. So this transfer will be fun. I’ve got a lot more responsibility and so far I like it. I’m gonna learn a lot.

Merry Christmas everybody. Thanks for everything. I’m looking forward to the call.

Love, Nate

Nate's phone call before Christmas

2008-12-20T18:38:00.000-08:00

Nate just called to schedule the Christmas call. It was great talking to him. He has been transferred to Marysville and he is the new District Leader and senior companion to an elder who has been out 6 weeks. Elder Martineau is the new Zone Leader. He says they have 5 inches of snow and he's loving it.

Picture information

2008-12-11T20:09:00.000-08:00

All pictures are from Nate's area. Mt. Baker is visible from town when it's clear. Nate's district was the "Water Ninja's" in November. He says they all have bird names for call signs (from Top Gun). Nate's the Millennial Falcon and Elder Martineau is Capt. Jack Sparrow. The lake picture is "Big Lake" which is near his home. Sunset pictures are the Puget Sound and Olympic Mountains.

12-6-08

2008-12-11T19:46:00.000-08:00

Hey Everybody,

Things are going well here. I want to respond to the last letters and tape before I tell about my week. Happy Birthday, Camille. I can’t believe you’ll be a mom in 4 months. Dad, thanks for your letters and other stuff you sent me.

My Thanksgiving was good. We ate at a member’s house who, luckily, is a good cook. Thanks for the genealogy. It’s interesting. Kenneth Merrill looks like you, Jay. And good try on the lunch idea with me, oh well. Thanks everybody for talking on the tape. Sean, nice work on being a Priest—that’s cool. I’m sure you’re bigger than I am by now. Funny story about Drew. For now, Scott, you’ll have to fill in for my position of “big cool guy” with the cousins. Good luck with all you’re doing right now, Scott. Everybody else, thanks for the letters.

This week was another good one. I’m not sure if I wrote about Mike’s dream already. We saw Mike and his family a few days ago and he told us about a dream he’d had. Before I tell how it went, I just want to say that I’m not adding anything into it. This is what he told us. It starts out and he’s on a path and behind him are demons that are trying to grab him and stop him and he’s running away from them and he sees this light up ahead. He’s trying to get to the light while he’s struggling to get away from the demons. As he’s going up the path, he sees trails off to the side and some of his old friends and gangster buddies are on them and they’re calling him over. Mike said he knew he wanted to get towards the light but that he ended up getting sucked into a few of these trails that went down and away from the light. After a while, he got back on the path and was determined to make it while the demons were still after him. As he got closer to the light, he could hear my voice and Elder Martineau’s voice inviting him in and he heard his kids laughing. The dream ends and he wakes up and was freaked out. He said he was sweating and then he got this calm feeling and knew that he was doing a good thing in getting his family into church. Then he went back to sleep. Pretty nuts. I’m not sure I would have believed this story if it was anybody besides Mike telling it. He’s a pretty straightforward guy. When he told us he heard our voices, Martineau and I looked at each other with did-you-hear-that looks on our faces. We’ve been talking with the whole family and teaching them and they’ll all be baptized here pretty soon, which is exciting. They’re an awesome family.

A guy we were teaching and taking to church about two months ago, Denny, has had a pretty rough time lately. We took him from the homeless shelter to church a couple of times and we were talking with him a few times a week and then he started getting shady and would avoid us. This was about 6 weeks ago. We’re teaching two other guys in the same shelter so we would see him occasionally, but for some reason he didn’t want to talk to us anymore. We found out yesterday through the guys we’re teaching there that he’d started drinking again a few weeks ago and that he’d gotten caught and kicked out of the shelter yesterday, on his birthday. I was bummed out to hear that. Last night about 9, I got a call on our phone from Denny. He was using a phone at the fire station and wanted to talk with us. We went back downtown and talked with him for a while. It was pretty sad. We couldn’t help him with a place to stay, and it gets cold at night here. He showed us pictures of him when he was a rock star in the 1970’s in NYC. He used to play shows with the Ramones and Blondie back in the day. Hopefully this rock bottom will get him going in the right direction again. There are a lot of homeless people downtown and I know almost all of them. I have a much stronger testimony of the Word of Wisdom because of this place.

On the brighter side, things are good up here. Christmas time is great. We got a tree at Goodwill for $10 and some lights for free, so it’s nice and festive. We should get snow in the next few weeks, that’ll be cool. I’m learning a lot.

Love,

Nate

11-29-08

2008-12-02T20:44:00.000-08:00

Hey everybody,

Sorry for lagging with the letters. It’s been pretty busy up here. The tape was nice. It was good hearing all your voices. Thanks Dad for the scrolls and other things—good stuff. Thanks everybody who talked on the tape. If anyone else wants to send me a cassette tape instead of writing a letter, that’s cool.

Like I said, is busy up here. Last transfer we usually got one person out to church per week, never more than 3. We got 6 out last Sunday, even a guy who flaked on us Friday showed up with his Book of Mormon in his hand. It looks like this Sunday we’ll get more. We’re teaching all these people and we’re finding new people to teach pretty much every day. It’s nice, with the last transfer, we got rid of the old and more dead missionaries and brought in 2 greenies and we have the youngest district in the mission by far, in the most successful district in the mission. We’re pretty driven right now. More got done in the first two weeks of this transfer than all last transfer. We should be able to put at least 4 solid people on date his week (Martineau and I). So things are going well in Mt. Vernon.

There are a lot of homeless people in downtown Mt. Vernon. We’re working with three right now. This last week one guy, Tony, gave up on working to get over his addictions and another guy, Denny, relapsed back with alcohol. It’s pretty sad seeing people making all the right moves and working to get back on their feet and then watching them stumble and fall back. Denny and Tony were both doing great, each about a month of sobriety under their belts and their faces started lighting up and they were happy and doing well. Denny was pretty close to moving out of the homeless shelter in town and getting a place of his own, but now he’s barely in the shelter since he just racked up two strikes and is on thin ice. We’ll still work to help them both, but neither are willing. No bueno.

On the brighter side, the other day, Brian, the guy we’ve been studying with for probably two months, is doing really well. He was a pastor for six years so he knows his stuff. We got him a quad about a month ago and he’s loved it ever since. He’s been reading the D&C and loves it. The other day he said, “When I’m a Mormon, I’ll call myself a Latter-Day Saint.” I was speechless. He’s pretty excited about everything and the whole process with him that’s been baby steps for the most part has strengthened my testimony a lot.

Raiders fan, Mike, and his wife, Amanda, and their lads are pretty excited too. The girls came out last week and loved it, so this week Mike should check it out. I’ve never seen Mike and the fam happier that they’ve been this last week—it’s pretty cool.

Then Ashley, the girl we taught once, a month and a half ago at her friend’s house, is pretty amped too. After she called us, out of the blue, last Tuesday, we’ve visited with her a couple of times and she’s bringing her friend, Elena, along this Sunday. So overall, things are going really well.

It’s getting cold up here, and windy. The wind is pretty gnarly in this valley we live in. It peels back metal shingles on barns and the rain feels like darts when it gets intense. What’s funny is that it’s been sunny as often as it hasn’t been. It sunny right now, and the whole time I’ve been here I’ve said that and people are always like, “Oh, you just wait, you won’t see the sun for years,” but they make it sound all crazy like that. Then it will be sunny with no clouds in the sky the next day. All I have to say about that is 2 Nephi 9:34. Booyah! Whether it’s sunny or not, it’s still sweet up here. I can see the Cascades and the beast (Mt. Baker) behind them. It is huge. It’s probably 50+ miles away and looks gigantic. It’s stays snow capped all year, pretty schweet!

I’m learning a lot about this little town. About six months ago, some guy out in the boonies started a rampage killing a deputy and four or five other people, shooting at people on the freeway and stuff and turned off in Mt. Vernon where they ended it and somehow cuffed him. Also, I guess 30 or 40 years ago there was a big mental hospital here and it lost funding and closed down and all the patients left and just lived on the streets. And I’m pretty sure they reproduced, because there’s a fresh crop. There are lots of homeless people downtown and I know about half of them. This area used to be the shaky baptism area for the mission because of that. No retention. Now we’ve got standards and focus on the more solid people who are hard to find in certain areas of downtown. But in Mt. Vernon, it goes from 100% Spanish-speaking pockets to super ghetto apartments to lower/poorer class areas all the way through the spectrum to the Coto de Caza-ish neighborhoods on the hill. And we’ve got farmers and hillbillies in the mix too. It’s great!

This area is nice. The people are humble and, for the most part, pretty religious. Sometimes the people who already go to another church are pretty closed off to even hearing us out, but there are a lot of people who have been receptive. It’s funny a few times a day we’ll be talking with people and we’ll talk about how important prophets were in the time of the Bible, people are always like “oh yeah, those guys were extremely important.” Then we’ll talk about how God is the same yesterday, today and forever and people always agree with that. Then we’ll talk about how by their fruit we can know if people claiming to be prophets are prophets, “oh yeah, definitely.” So we propose that a prophet lived in the 1800’s and then ask if they’d be interested in finding out for themselves if he was a true prophet or not. “Yeah, I’d like to know.” So we tell them we have the “fruits” to judge him by and that they can find out. And they’ll be like, “You know I’m ok, my church doesn’t believe that.” It boggles me. Oh well. Missions are great. I wouldn’t rather be anywhere else doing anything else.

Love,

Nate

11-17-08

2008-11-29T17:16:00.000-08:00

Hey Y’all,

This last week has been pretty sweet. We’ve been working hard finding and teaching and our investigator pool is looking pretty good. We have been talking to a guy named Mike for the whole time we’ve been out. He was tracted into probably a year ago and hadn’t shown much interest since then. He just let the missionaries in since they didn’t try to push beliefs on him or condemn him for not immediately accepting the message. He had never let any Jehovah’s Witnesses or any of the local church people in, but he liked the elders so they would come over and talk with him, not even religiously most of the time. He’s got a mullet, he has been to prison, he likes the Raiders, and he’s awesome. The prison was self-defense in a 1-on-6 situation dealing with a gang. Since we’ve met him, we’ve been over to his house a few times and he hadn’t shown a whole lot of interest. Last time we were there, we talked a little and I gave him a Book of Mormon and since he had an issue with faith, I gave him Alma 32 to read. We saw him a couple days ago and started doing his first lesson. He cleared off his table and said how the chapter really hit him and how he was excited to learn more. He told us halfway through how he felt a tingly feeling and how he felt a load lifted from him. We taught him the first discussion and it couldn’t have gone any better. He had been so perfectly prepared that I was almost in disbelief. He was excited to learn about each principle in the first lesson. Very cool because he was never able to be taught before because of a lack of interest. He told us how he wanted to get the kids baptized and how he didn’t want them baptized Catholic like his wife, and so naturally I said we could help him with that. He’s pretty much on date and we’ll teach the whole family next time, which was his idea. He’s all, “Do you think you guys could come over a couple times a week and teach my family?”

Things are falling into place when last transfer they weren’t. Today we put a guy on date and found a new investigator all in about 20 minutes. Last transfer we didn’t put anybody on date. Same area, better results, and it’s because we’re more focused and obedient.

Things are going well up here. Brian has been reading the Doctrine & Covenants and has fallen in love with it. He called us at 7:15 one morning to tell us. He’s not comfortable with the idea of a single true church, but he’s still coming along pretty well. He’s running out of money so he might go back into the forest, but we’ll dunk him before that happens, probably in the river.

I had my first baptism, because of the Spirit too. Mallory got baptized on Sunday. Perfect timing. The grandparents get into town, next afternoon we show up..they’re home (they’re never home), the inactive dad is gone, whoopee! We teach her, the grandparents back us up. Then…wait for it…the dad walks in and he agrees to the baptism. It was a big week teaching her all 3 lessons and planning for the baptism. Since she’s already been to church 3x, which is the mission rule, and today (Tuesday) the grandparents left to go back to Utah. And the grandpa confirmed her, and he told us Sunday that he has had prostate cancer and won’t be around for much longer and that this whole thing was an answer to their prayers. Crazy. Hopefully it will get her dad, Lance, back in action with the ward. I think it will.

The ward’s alright. Not a whole bunch of referrals, but cool people who are good at fellowshipping.

Washington is great. Lower class mostly with middleclass here and there, but VERY different from what I’m used to. Houses cost an average of about $250K out here. There’s farmers, the guy we live with works at WalMart. The people are cool though, down to earth and willing to do whatever to help with the work. It’s good.

It’s gorgeous up here too. The lake, the farmlands, the hills and montains that are covered in huge evergreens. It’s nice. And yes, it’s getting cold. Today we were freezing and it was only 50 degrees. It gets down to 30 and with the humidity up here, it goes through you.

Things are good and I’m learning a lot. I understand why people say missions are hard—it’s not fun seeing people reject something they can use.

Thanks for everything. More letters are on their way after this one.

Love, Nate

11-9-08

2008-11-29T17:09:00.000-08:00

Hey everybody,

I had my first transfer last week. Sunday night I found out that I'd be staying and Jones was leaving. I can't complain, I love this area. So on Tuesday, I got my new comp: Elder Martineau. He's from S. Jordan and he's been out for 3 months. So cumulatively, we've been out 4 1/2 months and are in one of the highest baptizing areas in the mission. It's pretty sweet. That greeny/transfer atmosphere is gone so it's a regular companionship where we both pull about half, and it's a lot better that way. We've got a lot more energy and we're more driven and we're just going for it. We can't answer every question but what we don't have as far as knowledge and experience, we tend to make for with synergy.

We're still working with Brian. He has been reading chunks of the Book of Mormon and now he's almost through 1st Nephi going from cover to cover. He's awesome. His wife divorced him a few years ago for no major reason and he refuses to sign the papers because he's 100% by-the-book and in the Bible it says only under fornication is that ok, so he left her and took his gun, his bow, some tools, a knife, a tent, seeds, and a sleeping bag and went out in the forest and lived there for a year off animals and a garden. He got custody of his son, Jonah, too while out there and would have him out there with him after school and on the weekends. Jesus tended to retreat into the forest so Brian thought it would be a good idea. I found out he went to OCC for a year and lived at the river jetties when he was younger. Weird. (Maybe I should live in the forest for a year...)

We have been starting to make our rounds to all the part-member families with unbaptized kids and got about 10 referrals from SLC in the last week. So with all of that and our pool of investigators, we have a lot of work to do.

The ward here is solid. There's a good mix of older couples and younger families. There aren't a whole bunch of them, but for the most part, they're very strong in the Gospel. We get dinners pretty much every night and they're excellent. When I got here and Sister Showalter told me the average missionary gains 25 pounds in the first 6 months, I was skeptical, but I am a believer now. I've been able to keep the gains to single digits, but it's definitely an uphill battle given the goodness of the food and the car we drive.

The rain has arrived. It rained all day Thursday, Friday, and part of Sunday, then the sun came out and it went from 55 degrees to 75 degrees in 10 minutes while we were teaching a lesson on a doorstep. It was weird seeing the sun. I forgot it was above the clouds. It was kind of like that time I was little and asked what it was when it finally came out in Issaquah.

We're in a finding mode so we do a lot of tracting. We ran into two of the weirdest people yesterday. Without the weird ones, our tracting wouldn't be half as fun. The first one was my door. I knock, she opens and I say "how are you doing today" to this older lady with curlers in her hair, but you know she never leaves the house. Anyway, she stares at me and doesn't answer and then yells, "what do you want?!" in the voice of Ebeneezer Scrooge, I'm pretty sure. I've never heard him talk, but I'm sure it would sound like this lady. I told her we weren't salesmen but that we had a message about the restoration and she slammed the door. Martineau had to walk away from the door when she yelled because he couldn't hold it in. It was good. So I say, "why do I always get the crazy ones?" and tell him he's going to get somebody worse than that. Sure enough. Probably 3 doors later a guy answers that looked related to the first lady and gives Martineau the same evil stare instead of responding and then cuts him off mid-sentence as he's asking him how he's doing and says, "better than you, because I'm not out bothering people looking like the bleep, bleep, bleep police." Then he mumbled some words to us and slammed his door. I lost it. It was a high point for the day. I try not to laugh most times, but this one was too great. The best part is we we took a priest along with us to get some member-present lessons. He wasn't expecting this crazy people so much, but he was still glad he went.

Today was a good day. After Stake Conference we went around to see all the part-member families with unbaptized kids in our area. We had been trying to see this family for weeks and they had never been home. So we went out that way and halfway there, Martineau was asking why we were driving out so far when we didn't have any miles to spare. He was leaning towards turning around but I kept on saying how today was perfect and how it needed to happen. We show up, knock the door, no answer. Then we knock another door even though we were pretty sure nobody was there because there were no cars outside. An older guy opens the door and invites us in. He was the grandpa to this 9-year-old girl, Mallory, that we were trying to see. He and the grandma were both there and asked us if we were teaching Mallory. We said "no" so they started talking about baptism and we taught her about it. Then the dad walks in and here's the missionaries and his parents talking with his daughter about baptism. He was pretty unfriendly and is extremely inactive. He agreed to let us teach her and she wanted to be baptized. He probably wouldn't have talked to us if his parents weren't there, and they got in the night before. The timing couldn't have possibly been better. We're going over tomorrow to start teaching through the lessons and we're going to try to have the Grandpa or Dad baptize her before the grandparents leave on the 18th of this month. Things fall into place perfectly sometimes. It's amazing.

After this, we hung out with a guy named Mike who was tracted into about 5 missionary sets ago and hasn't gone anywhere. We got him started with the Book of Mormon and he and his daughter, Monique, are going to read and we'll teach the whole family hopefully next time.

It's interesting, Elder Martineau and I have less than 5 months in the field combined and we've done more in a week than Elder Jones and I did in 3 weeks last transfer. It just goes to show that knowledge is not as important as energy and determination. It's gonna be a good transfer. I learned a lot last time and it's a lot more natural now. Things are good in Mount Vernon.

Those pictures of the Prop 8 effort are great. Jeff, I liked the "force" recreation too. I'm glad that everything worked out with Jose, that's great. Michael, thanks for the letter. That's good stuff and I'm working on the same things right now. Thanks everybody for the letters and the support.

Love, Elder Packer

10-30-08

2008-11-29T17:05:00.000-08:00

Hi all,

Things are going well up here. We are finding new investigators almost every day now, and are getting a few people out to church just about every week. We have been working pretty hard. Elder Jones's last companion went home for health reasons and they weren't able to get much done before I got here, but we've built some good momentum in the last 5 weeks. I have my first transfer Nov. 4th. I can't believe I've been in the field that long already. Time flies.

A cool thing happened this last week with Brian. He's the guy whose crazy brother tried to strangle him in his sleep. He had neck problems before that. He had even had a surgery to fix whatever was wrong with it. Before that he had been out of work for the last year due to his neck. So he was in bad shape afterwards. We were talking with him and he told us he hadn't slept for 2 nights because it was so painful and that his pain meds didn't do anything. We offered to give him a blessing and he accepted without any hesitation. We were out on his driveway so we asked him if he wanted to go inside. He's all, "I was baptized in the river, let's do it right here." So we gave him a blessing in the middle of his driveway. Right after we finished, he told us how he had been given countless blessings for his neck and other things and how for the first time he felt something. He felt the pain lessen in the middle of he blessing and we felt him relax as we gave it. He wa amazed by our blessing and the next day he told us he slept normally for the first time since the attack and that he wasn't in as much pain. It was a pretty sweet experience. That was the highlight of my week. (Brian actually used to live by the river jetties on the peninsula for a few years before he moved up here.)

Everything else is going well. As for the Axethelms, I know them. (Brian and Lareen, thanks for keeping me in your prayers, and thanks Emma). The first time I went over to their house, they asked me if I was any relation to Brian Packer from Idaho (my uncle). It was pretty funny. And their daughter was a best friend with Logan, I guess. I think we're going over there tonight to help the paint the house they're building. Bro Axethelm is the ward clerk and we've been working with Sis Axethelm to fellowship a potential investigator. Small world.

The work is good, the church is true.

Much love,

Elder Packer

10-9-08

2008-11-29T16:58:00.000-08:00

What's up everybody?

I'm an official missionary; it's pretty sweet. People stare at me a lot with my name tag and suit and tie and all that stuff. Some people are afraid of us and it gets really awkward trying to talk to them, those are pretty entertaining.

I'm in Mt. Vernon for the first 6 weeks at least, so until Nov. 6. Then there is another transfer which happens every 6 weeks and I will stay or be moved to anywhere else in the mission (I could be here for 6 weeks to 6 months).

It's pretty nice here. I'm about 10 miles from the Puget Sound and about an hour and a half south of British Columbia. There are farms out here surrounded by forests of huge evergreen trees. I live about 10 minutes from downtown Mt. Vernon to the east in a more woodsy area next to a lake in the basement of a family's house who are members of the church. My companion for this transfer is Elder Jones. He's from Utah, believe it or not. He's chill. He'll jam on the guitar and is into college football big time, so he's pretty stoked since his team is BYU.

Basically, I wake up at 6:30 every day and I have an hour to eat breakfast and work out if I want to before "personal study" where I study the Bible or Book of Mormon for an hour. Then at 8:30, Jones and I get together and study for the questions or concerns the people we are working with are having. Then from 10 am to 9 pm we are working, which is a mixture of tracting (knocking doors), street contacting (walking around downtown talking with people), or going to the teaching appointments we've set up. We have a Corolla we drive around, pretty sweet. Basically we find people to teach, and teach people about the Gospel of Jesus Christ and how it can help them, then ultimately baptize people. It's hard work but it's rewarding. It's nice to just be focused on helping people out.

Anyway, then at 9ish when we get home, we plan out the next day, what we'll do, where we'll go, who we'll see. Study some more or write letters and do it all again. Thursdays are P-days (preparatio days) where we get all the local missionaries together and play soccer, v-ball, tennis, take ferries out to the islands or whatever. We run errands, buy groceries and stuff too. There are a lot of thrift stores here since it's kinda ghetto so we can get old-school 3-piece suits for 30 bucks or so and really gangster 70's ties.

We all went to this rope swing last week that was one of the most intense things I've ever done. It sounded pretty weak, but when we got there, I wasn't even sure I was going to try it. This tree was about 100 feet tall and the rope probably went that far up it too where it ties to this branch. (I have no idea how they got it up there.) Behind the tree was this big hill and on the hillside of whoever's house this was we were at, built this 3-level step-looking platform that went up the hill away from the tree that the rope was attached to. So you could go from the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd level of this thing and then jump off and swing by the tree and out. It was gnarly. I went from the top and when I swung past the tree, I was going really fast and then when I swung out away from the tree, I was about 30 feet in the air. It was sick. Jones' feet slid out from the foot-circle thing where you put your feet, because it was raining, and he was holding on with his hands when he was swinging. It was pretty sketchy. He's been banished from it.

It's pretty here. Big evergreen trees everywhere, blackberry bushes grow wild and are really good. It's usually some form of cloudy or drizzling; rains a lot. I like it. Nice windy, foresty roads. A big river goes through downtown. It's really scenic. When you look to the east it's big hills covered in evergreens to the Cascade Mountains which are big and jagged, then behind them is Mt. Baker. It's this huge extinct volcano that is snow-capped year round.

Anywhoo, I wanna know what's going on with everybody. Hit me up. It's old school here, we don't do emails, just letters. So send me one. The address won't change, my mail all goes to the same place and then gets sent out to me wherever I will be in the mish. And no, they don't read them. So send me those love notes/poems you've been cookin up for the last month…Get those feather-quill pens out and write me a letter!

Nate

10-1-08

2008-11-29T16:52:00.000-08:00

Dear Family,

Today was a great day. We met a guy whose name is Brian. He has a good friend named Mike who is always at his house hanging out with him. He was a pastor for 6 years a while back and living next to a member. So she tipped us that he had shown an interest in the church so we went over a few days ago. We only talked with Mike the first time on Brian's lawn for about 5 minutes. I don't even remember what about. This was either my 2nd or 3rd day on my mission, and yesterday when we went and talked with Brian and saw Mike again, Brian told us how our talk with Mike really helped him out and how they appreciated our efforts. I had no idea. I was nervous and it was one of my first actual missionary interactions, and I was stoked to hear that.

Anyway, today was great because I'm getting door approaches/street contact down so I'm not nervous anymore. Elder Jones and I gave a sweet tag-team door approach/two-principle lesson/conference invite to a girl in downtown Mt. Vernon. We flowed really well and I felt like a legit missionary, not a greeny, for the first time.

But, about 2 hours ago at 8 pm after a good dinner appointment, we went over to Brian's house and as usual, he called us in. He got attacked by his brother 2 nights ago while sleeping. He jumped on him and started strangling him after walking in the front door about 2 am. Brian's adopted son called 911 and he bailed, but Brian has been a little torn up physically and emotionally since then. We've been over with him once before tonight and he has enjoyed it. He knows his Bible well and Mike gets in on our "study sessions" we have. They aren't lessons because we are just breaking ground right now. We're working on the Apostasy right now, and we already set up the Book of Mormon with him and I gave him my original quad to study from since I got a new unmarked one in the MTC, and he looked like a kid in cand land when he saw how my Book of Mormon was connected to the Bible with cross-references and all that good stuff. We talk about our beliefs and the agreement is if we say something he and the Bible don't agree with, we'll talk about it. And if he talks about things we see differently, we will prove our position. We've been showing him some solid scriptures and he really enjoys it. He made sure we realized how big of a help we were with him and was he was going through. He was amazed at how we rang the doorbell about 3 seconds after he thought to himself if we were coming by tonight. He's a really good guy, so is Mike. It is an awesome feeling to know we are helping them out. When he hears our whole spiel and knows it's true, he's really going to love us.

It's nice to talk with people who don't judge off the bat, and are open-minded to our message. Many people here belong to the myriad of churches in town and won't hear our message. The one lady who has belonged to another church and has allowed us to share was embarrassed since she had been told so many falsehoods about our faith from her minister. But still she decided the Bible was enough and wouldn't even experiment on the Book of Mormon. It's sad so many people don't know what they're missing since they have been told opinions as facts. When you think of the big picture with every religion of Christianity steming off a dead religion (Catholicism) and how there are countless numbers of these congregations with different interpretations of scripture, it is boggling how they can believe they are in the right place. The Trinity and how it came about through creeds also boggles me. If they had any idea the way we view the Kingdom vs. Heaven/Hell, things like that, there is no doubt they would all be interested to some degree. It is sad to see someone pass up something they need. Agency is a doozey!

Anywhoo. I am in Mt. Vernon. It's pretty nice here. Big evergreen trees everywhere, blackberry bushes grow wild and are really good. It's usually some form of cloudy or drizzling; rains a lot. I'm about 10 miles from the Puget Sound and about an hour and a half south of British Columbia. I like it. Nice windy, foresty roads. A big river goes through downtown. It's really scenic. When you look to the east it's big hills covered in evergreens to the Cascade Mountains which are big and jagged, then behind them is Mt. Baker. It's this huge extinct volcano that is snow-capped year round. There are farms out here surrounded by forests of huge evergreen trees. I live about 10 minutes from downtown Mt. Vernon to the east in a more woodsy area next to a big lake, in the basement of a family's house who are members of the church. Behind the lake is a huge hill covered in evergreens, like everything here, and behind that hill is the town of Mt. Vernon (30,000 pop.). There is a little downtown with a nice little Main Street. It's kinda ghetto. It's got a shady area, a few trailer parks, a Mexican section, a train-tracks ultra shady area, farming area, nice homes on the hills to the east of downtown, a river that flows through town, and a big lake which is over the hills out back to the east, which is were we live. Basically, the place is gorgeous. It has been sunny for the last 4 or 5 days too, and hot, about 80. Amazing. I really like it here: the area, my comp, what I'm doing.

My comp is Elder Jones. He's from Layton, Utah. He played football, wrestled. He's cool, plays guitar, good sense of humor, obedient, diligent, just a good all-around missionary.

Our Mission Pres is cool, Pres. Showalter. He's a mellow x-banker from Salt Lake, relaxed but very much in control and runs a tight operation with high standards.

Our district is cool. We had a good p-day last week. We played v-ball and it didn't last that long after I started jump-serving and making people feel bad with my uber-dominance. I didn't mean to shutthem down, it just kind of happened. So we played soccer. But a sweet rendition where if you mess up a certain number of times, you line up about 30 feet away facing away and people kick the ball at you. If you miss, you line up next to them. If you hit them, you're safe. So you want to get to the end of the line so there are like 10 people lined up and you can't miss. We have some cool ward members.

After that, we went to do a rope swing. It was raining and I was thinking it would be really lame. Oh my gosh, the thing was gnarly. Looking at it, I wasn't even sure if I would try it. It's up there with big waves and jumps as far as a first-time adrenaline boost. There was a tree about 100 feet high with the rope going up about 80 feet and tied to a limb that poked out perfectly away from the trunk. Then behind the tree was a hill and on this hill was a 3-level platform to take off from. It was awesome. You're on the platform and the tree is huge and the rope goes up forever and you jump off the platform and swing by the tree and get really big off the ground. It's totally safe, don't worry. (mother's note: yah right!)

Anyway, I love you all very much. I appreciate your prayers and letters. The picture of Creighton is hilarious and he will get a roundhouse for it. Thanks for keeping me up to date Mom. Dad, I hope your hard work is paying off. Katie, I hope you get that job. Sam and Connie, I hope the twins sleep better now. Camille and Jeff, I hope you guys are doing well with your tests/books. Jeff McLellan, I didn't forget about you. Surf it up for me. Mom, thanks for all you do.

Much love, Nate

9-23-08

2008-11-29T16:40:00.000-08:00

Dear Familia,

I'm here. It's beautiful. It reminds me of some old memories, and it's sunny. The Pres. and his wife are very nice and the people running the show here seem nice too. No emails. I kind of like that already. Don't have to take time to find computers. And letters are old school. I'll meet my trainer in an hour and I am not going to be serving around here, I guess.

Washington is so beautiful. Green, huge trees everywhere, mountains, clean rain-washed streets. Wow. I'm in love already. 1/25 is LDS here and there are many baptisms from tracting and street contacts. Good sign. I'll be living with members and will most likely be in a car. I'll fill you in with things next week.

Just send mail to this address and they'll forward it to me:

Elder Nate Packer

WA Everett Mission

16124-35th Ave. SE

PO Box 13390

Mill Creek, WA 98082-1390

No more candy. My teeth hurt. I heard the average missionary gains 25 pounds in the first 6 months. Not so much! I've never been 6-pack-less and that won't change.

Nate

9-18-08

2008-11-29T16:38:00.000-08:00

Dear Family,

Thanks for the swedish fish and beef jerkey madre. I have been eating swedes all the time and when i opened up the package i just started laughing, then eating like an animal and im about halfway done with them allready. thanks for the pictures also, much appreciated. things are good here, im still working away pretty dilligently, ive read up to alma in about 4 days and plan to finish PMG and hopefully mark or one of those guys (NT) before i leave. what else. gym time volleyball is getting better, when i got here it was total jungleball/ family reunion-ball and now ive taught most of them the idea of bump set spike, so were getting some rallys going now which is fun. i heard that my mission pres doesnt like emails, so this could be the last one. not sure tho.

the food is officially bad here, i dont know what i was thinking with my last email. i mostly eat cereal, salads, bananas, apples and the other few things they dont deep fry. i had cordon bleu yesterday and almost lost it, it was bad. and the food gives everybody the most rank gas ever. it sounds like a symphony sometimes in our room. i was talking about this in the hall during a break we had during class with some other elders from another district and they enlightened me with a fine scripture they likened the mtc cafeteria effects to. its jerimiah 4:19 and its money. (My bowels, my bowels! I am pained at my very heart; my heart maketh a noise in me: I cannot hold my peace, because thou hast heard, O my soul, the sound of the trumpet, the alarm of war.) other than the food things are good. im learning to be a better teacher, trying street contacts here and there with missionaries. i see hailey and rowdy pretty often. im excited to get out there and do this for real, i think im ready. thanks for the letters, treats, pictures and support. i love all you guys.

nate

9-15-08

2008-11-29T16:36:00.000-08:00

Dear Family and Friends,

Got the letters today. Thanks Kate. It’s good to hear from you. Hope all is well in SD. Congrats on the perspective medical job. Very exciting. You’re gonna be in the workforce.

My comp is cool. Quiet. Slight OCD in how he takes notes. Solid though. Never late. Always knows the schedule and follows rules to a T. So I'm glad to have him. The 2 other elders in my room are cool so I can talk to them, and they're in my immediate district too. My district Pres. is Mark Madsen's dad. As in X-Laker Madsen. I told him I am a Laker's fan and he says he might be either going back there or to Boston in the next few weeks. District is solid. Mature, very scholastic grasp here and it is motivating. I have memorized about 60 scripture mastery from the B of M and N. Testament. I can do lesson 1 with no notes either. The spirit really helps drive me. I wake up at 6 am, 30 minutes before my roommates to study in the morning. The days are so long and filled with instruction.

Pres. Uchtdorf spoke at our fireside tonight. It was good. The MTC Pres. is also a really good speaker, very motivating. It's all good here. Just getting into the consistent missionary groove.

It's cool you knocked doors for Prop 8. That shows a lot of conviction and obedience. I'm gonna have to start knocking doors here in a little bit. It's gonna be one sweet learning curve.

I love you all very much. You have done a lot for me and I realize that now more than ever.

Love, Nate

9-11-08

2008-11-29T16:34:00.000-08:00

Hey everybody,

This place is gnarly. im just gonna start with that. I wake up between 6 and 6:30 every day and get to class at 7, the schedule is packed with instruction, personal study, companionship study, meetings, training exercises to the point that it feels like 9 or 10 at night around 2 in the afternoon. classes dont end until 9pm with breaks for meals in between. I havent learned this much this fast ever. Again this place is gnarly. There are about 12 big dorm buildings here with a huge gym with with ball courts and basketball and stuff. and 4 square which is actually pretty fun. Theres a main building with probably 20 big meeting rooms and 50 classrooms, a giant cafeteria, and a laundrymat/drycleaners. We have a store here. Its a mini-city, which makes sense because even though im only here for 3 weeks the missionaries who learn other languages are here for 8-9 and the ones who learn new alphabets with their language like korean or chinese or hungarian and stuff are here for 12-13. and im glad im not them. there are about 2300 missionaries here. it has been really wierd being called "elder packer" and calling everybody either elder or sister lastname. everytime somebody asks me what my name is i say nate...i mean elder packer. its all good, im having a good time, learning a rediculous amount of things from the bible/boof of mormon daily, and have met some funny people here in the process. the foods not bad, i dont know why everybody hates on it, there is a big ice cream bar a couple times a week and about 4 choices for every meal. I stick with salads, fruits, and bread so i dont gain weight like everyone says they do here. im out of time, hope everybodys doing well. My address is Nathan packer, mtc mailbox #166, wa-evr, Provo utah, then the zip that i dont know. u can email me but i only get half an hour and i have 30 seconds so adios

9-7-08

2008-11-29T16:29:00.000-08:00

Dear Mom,

Good times at the MTC. Saw Rowdy today and ate dinner with him. The spirit is strong. My comp is a quiet guy from Connecticut, he’s cool. The 2 other guys in my area are also cool “Elders.” It is a steep transition calling everybody elder and not “guy” or “dude.” Any dropping words like “sweet”, “bomb,” and, of course, “gnarly.” It is very regulated here with many rules. I can’t wait to get some gym time. Overall, this place is nice. It’s neat seeing elders talking in Chinese and seeing so many elders to be heading all over the world. I definitely have a big maturity/experience advantage on about 99% of these guys, I mean Elders. But they all have the traits I like. So I’m making the change at the MTC, keeping it corny for you. But I can already see changes in myself and many more to come. This shall be an adventure. I’ll keep you posted…

Love,

Nate (Elder Packer)

9-5-08

2008-11-29T16:27:00.000-08:00

Dear Fam,

I got the letters today. Thanks. It is an awesome feeling to see the stack of envelopes and get multiple ones. It would be pretty weak, oon the other hand, to not get one. So thanks.

I’ll start by answering Camille’s questions. My comp’s name is Elder Twelves, like the #. He is a pretty obedient, on-time, nice guy. Doesn’t ever talk unless I initiate, and then I’m lucky to get more than a couple words, but he’s chill. I’m liking the MTC. Very strong spirit evert time we sing or get deep in the scrips. And yes, it is crazy how much I learn in a day. I feel like I’ve been here for a week. My teachers are radical. Very enthusiastic and genuinely passionate about the work. I can feel they would all like to jump in my luggage.

The cafateria food is ok. They have a salad wrap bar I discovered today. And cereal all the time, so I can avoid the greasy main courses now.

I’m glad the Jarvie’s came into the Room of Doom. They’re always good to be with.

Angie, you’re rad. Thanks for the letter, and for your story. I can relate. It’s like being pushed away from shore into a current tnd you have to take care of business from Day 1.

Love ya’all lots. Thanks for the letters. No candy please. Thanks for the support.

Love,

Elder Packer